GH-33420: [R] Improve error message when providing a mix of readr and Arrow options

[Rich-T-kid]

Rationale for this change

closes #33420

What changes are included in this PR?

updates the error message returned

Are these changes tested?

No, minimal change so I don't think its needed

Are there any user-facing changes?

better error responses for users.

• GitHub Issue: [R] Improve error message when providing a mix of readr and Arrow options #33420

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[Rich-T-kid]

@thisisnic could you take a look at this? 🫡 thx

[thisisnic]

Thanks for the PR @Rich-T-kid! Looks pretty good, just a couple of suggested changes from me:

• please could you update the PR title to include the issue number/name (see other PRs in the repo for examples)
• please could you either add or update any tests for these errors

Give me a shout if you have any question!

[Rich-T-kid]

@thisisnic / @Jonahkel pushed a PR that updates a test. Could you take another look 😄

[Jonahkel]

@thisisnic / @Jonahkel pushed a PR that updates a test. Could you take another look 😄

Hi! Looks good to me!
...just kidding. I assume you meant to ping @jonkeane ? ;)

[Rich-T-kid]

@thisisnic just wanted to bump this

[thisisnic]

@thisisnic just wanted to bump this

Please don't ping maintainers repeatedly. There are some guidelines on project etiquette here: https://community.apache.org/contributors/etiquette.html